Sunday, 5 January 2025

After the summer...October, November, December, Christmas...

 And… September, October, November, December… where did the time go?

Looking back over the years, I realise how much I am missing by not blogging regularly. At one point it was frequent, then once a month, then every quarter… and now, not even that. Still, not too late for a catch up….?

So, September saw us arrive back in Guernsey, home for a week and then back at Beaucette Marina in the van while a late booking stayed in the house. It was a little strange not to be at home, but fun to meet other Guernsey folk staying there, and reconnect with friends Brian and Ruth over for a visit from the UK in their van. Nice to explore that part of the island, going on lots of walks.

The guests were a little problematic… couldn’t find our extensive cutlery drawer, insisting – even after I told them where it was – that there weren’t any spoons or knives in the house! I ended up driving home to open the drawer for them….Very funny, but it wasn’t great having difficult guests and we were pleased to get home.

After that, the rest of the month passed in a whirlwind. We had celebrated our 40th wedding anniversary and my 70th birthday briefly before we went away, with a meal out at a favourite restaurant (the Rockmount at Cobo) and then a surprise birthday party organised by dear Wendy and Nicholas, complete with trick candles on a musical box, which carried on playing for hours – all the way home, enough time to annoy Pickle and then continuing for another fewer hours in the recycling bin…

We hosted a meal for a few good friends, before organizing drinks, nibbles and cake for another twenty or so a couple of weeks later. So spoilt with cards and thoughtful gifts.

 October, too, whizzed by, with socials, another of my monthly ladies’ breakfasts and supply teaching in various schools. I had joined a WhatsApp group of supply teachers, picking up quite a few jobs and getting to know different schools in the process – mostly a great deal of fun, especially with the younger children. Now that the granddaughters are similar ages, I feel somewhat more experienced in the amazing world of pre-school and early years….

 I like to be busy. I’d also started volunteering with PACE – a Christian charity going into schools, doing assemblies, lessons and so on. Rather a change from teaching, to be almost on the receiving end…Then, too, I volunteered in the church cafĂ© every fortnight or so, operating the dishwasher and occasionally helping with the paninis or soup serving. Great fun.

 We spent one Sunday afternoon helping to gather and pick apples at the orchard of friends of Nicky and Richard’s, who had kindly decided to donate the proceeds from selling the apples to the local cider company to the church. There was a breakfast for a group of friends, and then another in November – the last of the year.

 November saw me very busy with supply teaching, in several schools each week. A lunch with old friends, on holiday in Guernsey during one of the stormiest weeks of the autumn – ferries cancelled for days, with high winds and torrential rain….A quiz at church, in support of Open Doors, supporting persecuted Christians…

 I also began to be more involved with Olio, a national charity dedicated to trying to minimise food waste. December saw far too much produce ‘thrown out’ by the supermarkets, but I was delighted to see that the Olio volunteers who collected it often advertised on facebook for people to help themselves, and so little was, in the end thrown out. Not the same story, though, for the 68 Co-op raspberry trifles which Rosy round the corner was trying to valiantly redistribute…This corner of the island is relatively unpopulated, so it is harder to get people to collect food. It is amazing how hard the volunteers work – going to the supermarket in the evening to collect food, photographing it and posting it on the app, then bagging it up for those who request it. A lot of work.

 Christmas came…always a joy to reconnect with friends over cards and letters. Still catching up on replying to them all, as, a week or so before Christmas itself, both Richard and I came down with severe colds and coughs. So much so, that we felt we couldn’t go to Nicky and Richard’s where we had been invited for Christmas lunch, since two elderly ladies were also going to be present and our coughs were still unpleasantly uncontrollable, so didn’t want to pass on any infection. One of the guests was 101 years old! And still as sharp as a tack! So we spent much of the week around Christmas resting in bed, barely able to drag ourselves around the house. However, we managed to get to church on Christmas morning, ready to leave as soon as we started to cough but, marvellously, made it all the way through the service. I spent a lot of time watching Christmas movies… But dear Nicky insisted on dropping a wonderful Christmas feast round for us in the evening – smoked salmon, a delicious lemon posset, cheese, as well as the traditional Christmas turkey with all the trimmings, Christmas pudding, mince pies… we ate leftovers for SEVERAL days.

 It was particularly sweet of her as she had lost her beloved cocker spaniel, Maddie, on Christmas Eve, after much ill-health. Maddie and Pickle had enjoyed many vociferous barkings through the fence when Maddie used to live next door – Pickle missed her when she moved, with Nicky and Richard, into town. Fortunately, just a week later, Nicky noticed a sweet cocker spaniel on a dog rescue site: rang up to enquire, and within an hour and a half was on the ferry over to England to collect her! A whirlwind of serendipitous chance and happy activity.

 We finished the year with lots of lovely social events, including coffee with Anne-Marie and Doug (Pickle’s lovely dogsitters) and dear Wendy and Nicholas, all down from Scotland. Then New Year’s Eve at Bel and Richard’s…and we also, very proudly, managed to lay a new piece of vinyl flooring in the utility, with the help of Youtube. The room looks much better without the old tatty lino, which must have been at least twenty years old.

 So there we are. 2024 wrapped up and finished. Not always sure what I have spent my time doing… Wonder what 2025 will bring?